Thursday, August 30, 2007

I Found A Money Tree!

In the space of about 20 minutes, somehow, amazingly, I discovered I was sitting on a money tree!

It's tax time here in Australia and there is money flying left, right and centre. I've spoken before about how our social security system is set up - it is very much geared toward families and children and most families get money from the government to help with the cost of raising children. There is, unfortunately, a small portion of people who abuse this facility (having children specifically for the government payments), but there isn't generally a stigma associated with family payments.

Well, today I finally got around to ringing the agency which overseas social security. I knew we had some payments coming our way but they were dragging their feet. Without going too deep into it, families are supposed to estimate their income for the year ahead and the payments are given as a fortnightly amount according to this estimate (the more you earn, the less you are given in family payments, and so on). We have always over-estimated our income on purpose, because at tax time, you get the 'leftover' money paid as a lump sum. On top of that, there are a few 'once a year' payments that happen at this time of year, one or two of which are tied in with our son's disability.

Phew. Did you get all that?

The upshot of today's phone call is that the sum of money coming our way was several hundred dollars more than what I was expecting. It hits our accounts on Monday. This, along with our tax return (already paid) and the bonus part of my mother's estate, increases the buffer between 'happy' and 'concerned' (LOL). We're still knuckling down with Financial Spring Clean September, but there might actually be a little leftover to put toward household repairs.

And maybe a treat or two ;)

Cheers,
Lizzie

Great Organizing Site


I just have to tell you all about this awesome site I discovered not thirty minutes ago. I was over at I'm An Organizing Junkie and came across the link to MeckMom.com (some of you may have already seen it). This site is awesome! If you're after fantastic organizing ideas, Maria has them shooting out of her pinkie finger, LOL.

I've already gleaned, oh, about fourteen different organizing projects from her files. She also has a great Free Downloads section - well worth a look-see. Makes me want to throw out all my plain ol' boring templates and whip up some new ones that are more on her par!

Cheers,
Lizzie

Spring Cleaning The Finances


Today is one of those glorious days that seem to herald in the coming of Spring. The forecast is for the warmest temperature we've had for several months, and as I was walking the kids to school I could already smell the laundry detergent in the air.

Today is also our local council's hard rubbish collection for my area. Hubs and I hauled various broken items of furniture out to the kerb last night. We've had most of these items stored outside for the two years that we've lived here, so it was high time they went.

With September (and Spring, at least for us folks down here!) a hop, skip and a jump away, I'm dragging out all of my old expense tracking spreadsheets (self-designed...but did you expect anything otherwise? LOL) ready to begin tracking our expenditure come the 1st. We're not terribly big spenders - we always stay within our means - but we're far from perfect. Hubs was crunching some numbers on the computer last night and at our current rate of mortgage repayments (which includes a healthy buffer above the minimum repayments), it will take us a further 16 years to pay off the house, making 18 years total. We had been paying an additional (and completely voluntary) $150 per fortnight until a few months ago but stopped that temporarily to allow for some extra expenses that were coming up. Hubs also figured out that if we begin that extra payment again, the length of the loan will drop to 11 more years, or 13 total. Which is about where we wanted to be when we first applied for it. This does not take into account interest rate hikes (groan - they're on the upswing here) or me working at some point, which was/is also on the cards now that all of the kids are in school full time. I'm in no rush though (and truth be told, I'd be perfectly happy to be a homekeeper for the rest of my life, for a myriad of reasons we all know back to front and sideways, LOL). But it was always a dream of mine to have paid off the house before our second son hits university age. Tuition is expensive! Of course, it would stand to reason that he's already skipped one year, and will probably skip a second as he enters high school, LOL.

So, there's a strong undercurrent in Lizzie's Home, as we enter into the warmer weather, to do a bit of a Spring Clean of our finances. I must admit, I haven't exactly been the best steward with the money that passes through my hands in the last few months, so that's something that I'm focusing on. As a homekeeper my main expense is groceries, so I'm committing to tracking dilligently for one month to begin with. And, because I'm slightly OCD (LOL), I'm going to return to my very detailed Grocery Tracking Spreadsheet to do it. This spreadsheet is a wonder folks - it tracks 26 different categories from meat, fruit and vegetables and toiletries to stationery, frozen food and baking supplies.

Because I'm just that degree of crazy, people.

Ahem.

All jokes aside, each time I've done this, some really interesting information comes to light. I can tell you how much we've spent (for example) on meat (or any of the other 25 categories), and it keeps a running total for me. It also highlights the spending in 'naughty' areas, like Treats & Snackfood. I'm always shocked at that figure! (For the record, my 'grocery' total always includes things like toiletries, small household items like toothbrushes and lightbulbs, paper products - there's even a Chemist (drugstore) category - as well as what we spend on actual food. It's just how I prefer to arrange the finances. So if I ever quote a figure that sounds outrageously high, consider this, but also consider the exchange rate and general increased prices of shopping in Australia!)

So there's that. Plus, I'll be keeping a record of all other expenses (mortgage, electricity, phone, school expenses, clothing, shoes, etc) on another document. I'm certain I can find the additional $300 in September to meet the extra mortgage repayment. Hubs and I have already discussed keeping all non-essential spending to the bare minimum during September. At the end of the month, we'll re-assess and see whether we need to tighten or loosen the slack.

Tracking so minutely can get a little tedious at times, but the end result is worth it :)

Cheers,
Lizzie

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Works For Me Wednesday ~ August 29

Kids are funny creatures at the dinner table. They're either shovelling in the food like a Survivor contestant after winning a food reward, dropping scraps on the floor for the dog (...oh wait - we don't have a dog) or surreptitiously trying to poke a pea up their nose just to see what it feels like.

Or is that just my family? Ahem.

In our house, we do something we ingeniously entitled The Good and Bad Game. Going around the table, we each talk about at least one good thing and one bad thing that has happened to us that day. At this stage in the game (our kids are almost-9, 7 and 5 ½), the tidbits that come forth are hardly earth-shattering ("Sarah went ahead of me on the playground today! It's not fair!") but we figure it serves as a starting point for deeper conversation ("Well, going down the slide fourteen times in a row probably wasn't that fair to Sarah either, sweetie.") And we're hoping as the kids get older, and their lives get more complicated than slides and jungle gyms, that they'll be far more likely to open up with their problems. Plus, its lovely to hear about their 'good' things. We've talked about getting special praise from a teacher, helping a friend at lunchtime, special responsibilities, lost teeth and fun schoolwork. Of course, we talk about these things at other times too, but The Good and Bad Game is a hightlight of the evening meal for all of us :)

As usual, drop in at Rocks in my Dryer for more WFMW participants :)

Cheers,
Lizzie

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

New Growth, New Budget

(yes, those are real Australian notes! LOL)

Doing my rounds of Bloggityville today I came across this great post over at SAHMmy Says.

As August draws to a close, I've had money on my mind. For my neck of the woods, Spring is right around the corner. There's new growth everywhere. Except in my purse!

A 'series of unfortunate events' over the last two or three months has left us with a short-yet-not-insignificant list of repairs and other necessary financial evils. Thankfully, there's hope around the corner. It's tax time here, meaning we just got our tax return back. As well as this, our social security system is very much geared towards families (nearly every family gets something from the government, even those, like ourselves, earning a decent wage - though the more you earn, the less you get in SS payments obviously) and we're being slipped little chunks of cash from the government in the form of rebates, schemes and family payments (I'd explain it in more detail, but it would bore the 85% of my readers (ie, those Stateside!) to tears, LOL). Bottom line, we have some bonuses coming in. We just need to prioritise what goes where.

But when I read the above post today, it reminded me that I was going to try something similar in September. I just need to work out the details. Everything is going up in the grocery store. Milk and cheese - eek! And the drought here in Australia has seriously affected the quality and price of our fruit and vegetables. It's far more economical in my area to go to a stand-alone greengrocer but it can be inconvenient to get to them. And Woolworths is just down the road. So its a constant juggling act between wanting to save time, and wanting to save money. However, I shall persevere!

I think its about time to dust off my super-dooper expense tracking spreadsheet system. I haven't used them in quite some time, but September is looking like the time to start it up again :)

Cheers,
Lizzie

Recipe ~ Chocolate Truffles

Under no circumstances are any of you to consider this a healthy recipe. I'm just forewarning you!

Chocolate Truffles

250g (about 9 oz) plain chocolate cookies, crushed
(here in Australia I use Arnott's Choc Ripple, but I guess any Oreo-like chocolate cookie would work - just make sure they're plain, without filling or choc coating)
1 ½ cups desiccated coconut
1 tin (395g/14 oz) sweetened condensed milk
(Nestle makes it)
½ cup crushed nuts
(I buy 'granulated nuts', ie, peanuts in itty bitty pieces)
1 ½ tablespoons cocoa powder
Extra coconut for rolling

Method

1. Roughly break up the cookies and put them in a large ziplock bag. Give the kids the rolling pin and let them take turns banging the pieces into fine cookie dust (LOL). If you have particularly overzealous kids, double-bag!

2. In a large bowl, mix together all the ingredients except for the extra coconut.

3. Roll mixture into balls, as small or as large as you like
(I tend to go with about a tablespoon's worth of mixture per ball). Roll the balls in the extra coconut to coat.

4. Refrigerate for at least 30 minutes (if you can wait that long!) or, preferably, overnight. They improve with age.

Notes

It is a prerequisite in our house to have your first two (seven) with coffee.

When you are rolling the mixture, it will be sticky. Moisten your hands with water to make it a little easier to roll, but your hands are gonna get messy. Resist the temptation to lick them clean as you go.

These make really simple fancy-schmancy gifts, especially if you're hard-pressed for an idea for people like teachers, caregivers, next door neighbours, who you might not know too well. Get yourself some of those foil 'truffle cases' (ie, the tiny little cupcake cases) and pop a truffle in each one. Presenting them all purdy like this (perhaps in a shallow gift box - you can pick those up cheaply at dollar stores) screams 'effort'.

And lastly, a public service announcement: "Do not exceed maximum dosage of 8 per day." Or, you know, you could, but you'll end up with a big tummy ache :P Enjoy!

Cheers,
Lizzie

Monday, August 27, 2007

Menu Plan Monday ~ August 27


Back in the saddle this week! Last week my MIL was down for a visit and I was knee deep in HTML :)

Monday ~ Spaghetti Bolognaise (garlic bread)
Tuesday ~ Parmesan Crumbed Chicken with Sweet Chilli Mayo (never got around to making this from two weeks ago, with mini roast potatoes, broccoli and carrots)
Wednesday ~ Oven Baked Frittata
Thursday
~ Chunky Shepherd's Pie (vegies)
Friday ~ Bacon & Egg Tarts (new recipe, with salad)
Saturday ~ Marinated Chicken
(yet to settle on a marinade! Plus potato and bacon hash browns, vegies)
Sunday ~ Takeaway!
(we alternate Pizza and Takeaway on Sundays)

From here on out I'm adding a baking session to my weekly menu post. Generally speaking, I bake on Sundays in preparation for the school week ahead, but that's just a loose guide. If I feel the urge to pick up the spatula ahead of time, I do.

Baking

Anzac Biscuits (Cookies)
Fudge Brownies
Scones (will have these for afternoon tea one day, with jam and cream)
Apple Pie (will have this for dessert one evening, probably Saturday - we don't normally 'do' dessert, so it will be a treat)

This week Hubs is home for dinner every day, so I try to make it a more pleasant experience than the nights that the kids and I just kind of shuffle to the table, LOL. The table is set, thought goes into side dishes (in a way that I often don't bother with when it's just me and the kids) and every now and then, we'll have a special dessert.

Pleasant cooking everyone!

Cheers,
Lizzie

Saturday, August 25, 2007

The Wonderful World of Lists


Oh gosh, I just had an overwhelming feeling of being at the bottom of a very, very deep hole, commitments wise, LOL.

Time for a BIG. FAT. LIST.

Does anyone else 'do' a Master To-Do List? I've already got a template somewhere on the computer that I'm thinking of putting up in the Printables section for others to use. I'm also thinking of creating another template that lists short, medium and long term goals all on the one page. Sort of a 'one stop shop' for keeping on track. What do you think?

At some point I'm going to set myself a challenge to follow my Routines to a tee for an entire week, specifically the bits about being in bed by 11pm and doing the Evening Routine before the kids go to bed so my evenings aren't spent madly scrambling to get stuff prepped for the next day. And then I can relax and enjoy my crafts or TV. I follow the Routines now at a rate of about 80%, LOL.

D-Day for yet another go at 'eating healthy' and 'getting fit' (no diets here) is Monday 2nd September. And I'll leave it at that because whenever I talk up these attempts and fail, I feel horrible. 'Nuff said.

Another quick dose of kudos goes to Tina of Mummified Times Five for (once again) selflessly sharing large chunks of her free time this past week to help me nut out HTML. It's slowly sinking in Tina. Slowly (LOL).

Cheers,
Lizzie

Laundry...And A Bonus

Saturday mornings are busy around here.

I have a mound of laundry to do, as I slacked off a bit during the week due to other priorities. The whole house needs a once-over, and at some point the kids and I are walking to the library/small suburban shopping centre to run some errands.

I'm slowly adding things back to the sidebars, though it is taking me a bit longer than I anticipated :) All this adding via HTML takes ages! Although I must admit, what initially scared me witless (ie, poking around in the HTML box) now illicits more of an 'eh' response, so I must be getting better at it :P And I love how I can make things look exactly as I want them to look

We got a lovely surprise a couple of days ago. My sister, who was/is the executor of my mother's will, called to let us know that we'd be getting another $400-$500 within about the next month or so - something to do with being able to claim back part of the tax we'd paid on the payout of her superannuation (retirement fund). It's tax time here in Australia and we usually get a combination of payments via our tax return and other government payments - all of which we've already designated a purpose, LOL. But that extra few hundred dollars from my mother's estate pretty much means the difference between being able to replace the couches we're (literally) taking to the dump this weekend, or buying beanbags for the loungeroom. Which, you know, doesn't really fit in with the whole 'parlor' idea I was going for in there :)

Well, I'm off to reboot laundry - joy!

Cheers,
Lizzie

(clipart © www.cutecolors.com)

Thursday, August 23, 2007

Thursday Thoughts ~ August 23


~~ Thursday Thoughts ~~

An old Cherokee was teaching his grandson about life. "A fight is going on inside me," he said to the boy. "It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil - he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority and ego.

"The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith. This same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person too."

The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?"

The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed."

(from "Food For Thought" -
http://www.msdssearch.com/FoodForThought.htm#24%20Golden%20Hours)



How many times have you fed the Wrong Wolf today?

How many harsh words spoken in anger? How often do we feel envious of the other mothers who seem to have it 'all together'? Or the times that we allow our feelings of guilt or resentment to dictate how we treat the people around us?

Let's look at the 'nice' wolf for a moment.

Joy. Peace. Love. Hope. Serenity. Humility. Kindness. Benevolence. Empathy. Generosity. Truth. Compassion. Faith.

What an amazing legacy this would leave. Would others use those words to describe you?

What can you do to feed the Right Wolf today?

Joy ~ It's an absolutely glorious day where I am. Spring is right around the corner, the blossom trees are in the middle of their short run, the sun is shining and life is grand. It's a happy kind of day :)

Peace ~ On a day like today, it is easy to calm my spirit, LOL. Several times today, when I've caught myself beginning to stress about a deadline long past, I've reminded myself that everything will work out.

Love ~ I just made my husband some cinnamon toast and a hot cup of coffee for lunch. I know, it's usually breakfast food, LOL - but its what he wanted!

Hope ~ I have hope for a lot of things. I hope that the magic Procrastination Fairy kicks the bucket, for a start!

Serenity ~ This ties in with Peace. "Serenity" is my 'stop' word. Don't have one of those? It's a word for one of those days where everything is going wrong. The kids are acting up, the dishwasher is spewing water all over the kitchen floor and you found a dead lizard in one of your sons' pockets AFTER it had been through the wash. You say the word to yourself over and over (or in my case, the entire Serenity Prayer!) until you no longer feel like screaming. The grown-ups version of 'counting to ten' if you like.

Humility ~ Nobody is 'entitled' to good food, good health and a roof over their heads because of who they are or what they have done with their lives. At least not how we percieve 'entitlement' in the western world. So be thankful that you've been blessed in whatever area you're filled to overflowing in.

Kindness ~ If you see someone struggling with their groceries, help them. Stay behind to help with morning reading activities at your kids' school, just because you can see the teacher is a little frazzled today. Have a cold drink (or a hot coffee :) ready for the man of the house to walk in to when he gets home from work today. And don't expect anything back in return.

Benevolence ~ Again, closely tied with Kindness. Be charitable. Not just with the wider community but with your own families. Throw in an extra buck with this week's allowance - just because.

Empathy ~ "There but for the grace of God, go I". Even if you hold no religious beliefs, it is easy to see that the tide could be turned in a heartbeat. I see situations all around me, every day, that my ability to be empathetic opens my eyes to. There's a family at my youngest two's school who has just learned their youngest son (aged 4) has a brain tumour. Another couple we know, expecting their fourth child, is having a hard time with the pregnancy (their second and third children were both born at around twenty-SIX weeks gestation and pregnancy is a dangerous thing for them). It's hard not to then look at my own kids, who are rarely sick, and not be thankful. But it also gives me insight into how I can help those who are struggling around me.

Generosity ~ Don't just give a little. Give a LOT. A lot of your time. A lot of what you know they need. A stressed-out Dad caring for three sons while going back and forth between hospital and home will appreciate a meal from your freezer stash, but don't stop there. Give enough meals for a whole week. And desserts. What you give out, will come back to you in turn :)

Truth ~ Be honest with everything. Even when all around you are stepping over the line (and getting away with it), be the bigger person. Do not lie. Give back change at the register if the girl mis-counts. If someone asks your opinion on something that you do not like, enjoy the freedom of being truthful. But never use your truthful opinion to be condescending or malicious. You might hate that haircut/dress/situation, but Tact goes hand in hand with honesty. Use it!

Compassion ~ This is often described as 'sacrificial love'. Would you give up your seat on the bus knowing you'd be standing, cramped, sweaty and thrust into everyone else's personal space? Would you give up your one free afternoon in two months to attend to a last minute errand your husband has asked you to do? Would you go out of your way to help someone? Really?

Faith ~ This can be spiritual faith or it can mean faith on another level. I have faith that no matter what, my marriage will remain strong though couples around us are dropping like flies. I have faith that despite Master J's many problems, that life will right itself in due time. I have faith that after many, many years, a new couch might actually be an option this year! LOL.

Cheers,
Lizzie

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

Just Call Me Rocker


This is not normally something I'd admit to, but about once, oh, every thousand years or so, I return to a part of my youth I've long since covered up with housework, meal planning and wiping mucous-y noses.

Back in the day, I had an Atari 2600. I remember my siblings being insanely jealous because officially it was given to me as a birthday present. I also remember such games gems as Yars Revenge (please, if you remember this game, leave me a comment! Nobody else I've ever come across remembers it!) and a weird pixelated tennis game that the game developers of today probably look back on with a mixture of mirth and bewilderment. It was the modern technology of the eighties! You know, when computer screens were about four inches square?

I married a man who likes his games. Currently we have a PlayStation 2, but 99% of the games that happen across our threshold (most are rented, and these days, even those are only occasionally) bore me to tears. Either that, or I'm not co-ordinated enough to master them. But I prefer the former :P

During the last school holidays, we stayed with relatives, and their eldest son is a gaming nut. It was during this stay that the kids discovered Guitar Hero II and promptly set about saving their pocket money upon our return home. A Guitar Hero II pack with guitar controller and game retails for around $120 here, but amazingly, all three kids were willing to put in $30 each. Given their good attitude, good saving record and willingness to pool their money (usually fiercely guarded!) Hubs and I put in the last $30. Officially, we are no longer a family.

We are a BAND.

Ahem.

At first Miss Butterfingers (aka, me) couldn't make my fingers go where I wanted them to go. The game requires good co-ordination, not a strong point with me. But then one afternoon, when my chores were done and the kids were still in school, I had some time to spare, and sat down with Hubs for a bit of a spin on the gee-tar. And I actually managed to hit a few notes. Before I knew it I was leapin' round the loungeroom, looking like an absolute goose, but strangely having a large dose of fun.

I rocked.

Okay, so I'm still set on 'easy', but tonight I managed to complete a whole song (Foo Fighters' "Monkey Wrench" for those of you playing at home) without a single mistake. Not one.

There may have been a teeny tear of pride slip down my cheek.

Either that, or a tear of frustration over spending two hours and sixty-two takes to do it.

Cheers,
Lizzie

Monday, August 20, 2007

A Stitch In Time

(design courtesy of www.sewterific.com/basketbonnets)

In a fit of creativity, I've decided to give redwork embroidery a go.

My MIL is here for a visit this week (hence the lack of posts, sorry!) and at my request she brought down some of her embroidery patterns, which will be perfect for redwork. I spent about ten minutes practicing colonial knots, but apart from that, redwork is so self-explanatory even I'd have trouble mucking it up, LOL. I've gotten quite excited about some of the designs MIL had and can totally see myself curling up on the couch of an evening, stitching away :) It's been a long time since I've felt craft-inclined!

We've had a good weekend. Today Hubs, his mum and I went to our local mega-hardware store and picked up a few things, and I got a little daisy bush to plant in our garden. Seeing how good it looks in the ground, I think I'm going to have to appeal to Hubs to get a few more. It's a cute little pink variety. This week is showing a hint of the spring weather to come, so prime planting weather in my area. I want to find some English lavender but the pickings at the garden centre adjacent the hardware store were slim today.

Tomorrow the three of us are heading into the city to go to a large outlet shopping centre and Ikea. We have a small shopping list of things to look out for.

No Menu Plan Monday post this week - I'm eating out of the fridge and pantry and doing a bit of a hodge-podge of meals while MIL is here. Also, with the new blog design, I'm still trying to work out how to link directly to a post, rather than my home page (if you drag the cursor over this post heading, you'll notice you can't click to bring it up on a separate page). Even though I use Blogger and there's an option in the settings to allow you to bring the post up in a new window, I haven't yet figured out if switching to an Old Blogger format messed with that. I could link directly to my home page in the meantime but I'd rather not :)

I haven't had much of a chance to add new stuff to the sidebars this weekend, but toward the end of the week I hope to have everything all finished.

Hope everyone's weekend was lovely!

Cheers,
Lizzie

Thursday, August 16, 2007

Let's Play Tag


My new BOFF (best online friend forever :P) Tina tagged me for a meme about organizing.

1. What is your most difficult organizing challenge?

Two areas of our home at the moment - no, scratch that, three. Our fourth bedroom is earmarked for Boofah's bedroom as soon as we can clear the clutter and boxed up stuff out. He's shared a room with his sister since she was old enough for a big bed. Here's an example of what that room is like at the moment: You know that scene in Entrapment (Catherine Zeta-Jones and Sean Connery) where she does that gymnastics hoopla over the laser-beams? That's what I'm like every time we need to enter the spare room. Minus her body of course!

The other two areas are the main bedroom (unfortunately, not as peaceful as it could be) and Boofah and Miss Moo's current room. Auughh.

2. Who inspires you?

Anyone who gets their first load of laundry going before breakfast. I bow down to thee.

3. How did you start organizing?

Gosh, it just sort of happens at some point. You get sick of the clutter that three (or more) children produce!

4. What do you love about organizing?

That feeling of accomplishment when a job is done. I look at some people's homes with all the knick-knacks and even when they're neat and tidy, they look messy to me somehow. So my style is more minimal. 'Country minimal' if you like.

5. What is your guilty pleasure?

Spending time on the 'net. Sad, but true. And, I like to go to the cinema all by myself and watch whatever chick flick is currently showing. But in terms of organizing, I guess I am guilty of buying too many containers or systems in which to put the stuff I've just organized, LOL.

Please steal this meme for your own blog!

Cheers,
Lizzie

A Quiet, Reflective, HTML Kind Of Day


Good morning everyone!

There's not much going on around here today, that is if you don't count self-learning HTML. The kids are off at school and Hubs doesn't leave for work until the early evening.

My MIL is coming to stay for a few days from this Saturday. I'm rearranging the menu a little to accomodate her visit. The kids have requested homemade pizza on Sunday night so that they can take the leftovers to eat cold for lunch on Monday :) I didn't get around to making Cottage Rolls last night so they'll fit in there somewhere as well, though perhaps for a lunch rather than a dinner. That leaves three dinner meals to plan. Half of this interim menu will flow on for next Monday's Menu Plan Monday post, but I'd like to shop for anything else I don't have tomorrow so we're not rushing out on Saturday or while MIL is here.

I found some bargains at my local supermarket this week, of all places (for those living in the States, the whole 'market combined with department store' thing a la Walmart never really took off here. Our local Woolworths supermarket is 98% food with a small section for household items and stationery. Like three-fourteenths of an aisle or something). I picked up two 4pk paper punch sets and one 2pk longer paper punch set (ie, border) for $2 ea, and two card making kits for $6 ea, each with 144 sheets of scrapbooking paper (various sizes, but at least 50 12x12's) and a few other doodads like ribbons and buttons. They were half price. I've not yet delved very far into scrapbooking but at that price the kids can make cards for Nana using the paper punches or just muck around with them if it ends up being one of those projects I get right into and then stop, LOL. So far this month I've got a skirt making project on the go (bought patterns and enough material to sew a small tent, sigh), and I've thought about beginning simple redwork (bought an embroidery hoop, calico to practice on, needles and several skeins of thread...oh and bookmarked about twenty redwork websites for designs :P )

I'm nothing if not determined, LOL.

If we had a lunch gong it would be going off right about now, so that's it from me today (okay, for a few hours at least). I'm slowly working my way through fixing up all the old links so stay patient.

Cheers,
Lizzie

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

Moment of Sheer Panic


I very nearly just inhaled my own spleen. I doubt its physically possible under normal circumstances but I swear my organs have switched positions in the last half hour, so you never know.

A couple of days ago I discovered a nifty little template generator. I won't give you a link until I am absolutely certain I know how to work it, because trust me, you want your organs to stay in the same place as they were this morning. It was fabulous on the surface - you can neatly box things off in your sidebars, it was three column (a must for me), I could finally (and easily) add a custom header...

The generator is a lovely little point-and-click deal (absolutely essential for me) and in theory, the code it spits out for you at the end should slip seamlessly and effortlessly into the HTML editor of your blog.

Excuse me for a moment while I hyperventilate into a paper bag. The trauma is coming back.

Ahem.

I have a dummy blog I use regularly for stuff like this so that's no problem. At first I couldn't get the code to work. Blogger was coming up with an error message saying I needed to insert a "<" somewhere, or find the flux capacitor. Or something. It was all going over my head. New blog-friend Tina from Mummified Times Five, God rest her bloggityville soul, kindly sent me the code from HER blog (she used the same template generator) so I could possibly (like in four thousand years from now) figure out a way to sub my customisations into her code.

HA!

It was only then that I wondered if the template generator's website had a help menu.

Funnily enough, someone else had had this problem. The author mentioned that the generator was designed for the old Blogger (Beta) so converting to 'Classic View' (a simple link click at the bottom of the code box on the 'Edit HTML' page) would give better results.

And it worked. It honest to goodness worked. I had a pretty country background, centred header, neat little boxes for all my sidebar related stuff. I was looking at my dummy blog and swooning, it was that good. The funniest thing is, you probably think I'm joking. I was not.

And alas, pride comes before a fall...

So with the wonderful success on the dummy blog, I was feeling about ten feet tall, so I moseyed on over to my REAL. LIVE. BLOG. and into the HTML editor to copy in the same code.

For gosh-knows what reason, the lovely design I'd come up with looked mostly okay but a column was out of alignment. That's no problem, I could fix that - eventually. Then whenever I clicked on a link, I reverted back to 'Scribe' 2-column (ie, boring as dishwater, standard Blogger) format. The pretty new design didn't transfer over to any of the other pages!

That's right about the point the panic set in.

Until I remembered (thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you) that I'd downloaded the original Lizzie's Home template code first. And here we are back again, if not physically scarred then definitely mentally so, breathing (mostly) normally again.

I have never been more thankful in my life that I stopped to download my template first. Let this serve as a lesson:

1. Set up a dummy blog. Right. This. Second.
2. ALWAYS download your template in full before changing the HTML. Because if you don't, then I'll feel responsible and after today, I don't ever want to see another piece of HTML code that isn't pre-tested and gift-wrapped. Ever again.

So, three questions for you all:

1. Does anyone know of any user-friendly (ie, no HTML knowledge necessary) blog template generators out there?

and...

2. If I went to a professional, what would be the going rate for an entire blog re-do? Because that's how addicted I am to blogging. And I know how sad that sounds.

and...

3. There is no number three. I'm too traumatized, LOL.

Cheers,
Lizzie

Leave Me Alone, I'm Sleeping


Hannah over at Cultivating Home has a post up that got me thinking today.

Starting the day slowly and peacefully. How many of us actually do that on a regular basis? I'm not a morning person at all, preferring to 'get my stuff done' in the evenings (which, ahem, sometimes flow on to the very-early-mornings). I've been wired that way since gosh-knows-when. Consequently, my nights are almost always late, and my mornings are generally akin to trying to wade through wet cement, LOL!

Master J gets up first. I don't even know when exactly, but I figure it is around 6:15 or 6:30. He happily amuses himself and then comes in to wake Mum up around 7am. My alarm (on school mornings) is set at 6:45 but between the snooze button and the general "I don't WANNA get ups" I'm rarely out of bed before 7:15, even with my Little Alarm Helper :P More often than not, especially on weekdays, I survive on six hours sleep or less. A few times, MUCH less.

I don't think it is enough, LOL.

I've been wondering for a while now about how easy (translation: how incredibly difficult) it would be to break the habit of late nights and slow mornings. If I had to, I could wean myself off the late nights by 15 mins at a time, but I'm talking about changing my mindset as well. I'd love to be a morning person, LOL! I'd love to get up (willingly! and without a crying child to prompt me!) at 6am, spend some quiet time by myself, start on the housework, eat breakfast and ease myself into my day, and get the kids ready to go to school, without feeling as though I'm being made to walk the plank.

In our house at the moment, school mornings aren't at 'panic stations', but they're not 'leisurely' either. I get up at 7:15 and concentrate on getting Master J ready for the taxi pickup at around 7:45 (his taxi actually arrives more like 7:50 or 7:55 but they're on a tight schedule and can't wait for us to tie shoes or pack lunches, so I give myself a healthy buffer). In half an hour, he's up, fed, teeth brushed, face washed, dressed, socks and shoes, toilet and out the door. Sometime during that half hour, Boofah wakes and will quite often eat breakfast and get ready by the time J leaves as well - but then he has about forty minutes to kill (I'm encouraging him to read books of his own choice during this time, and he's happy as a clam doing that). Miss Moo absolutely, 100% without a doubt, takes after her mother in the 'getting up' stakes. She rarely gets up of her own accord, so I wake her around 7:40 or so and aim to have her finish her breakfast by 8:00. Then dressing, shoes and hair (she has long hair and Mum's rule is, it must be in a plait (braid) for school).

THEN...

Mummy gets ready. It is not uncommon for me to be getting dressed 5 mins before we're due to walk out the door, so you can imagine the lack of a fancy schmancy hairdo and thrown-together outfit, LOL. Ideally, we should be out the door by around 8:40. We live a 5 min walk from the school, and the bell goes at 9:00, so this gives us plenty of time to slowly make our way there, play a little outside before the bell, and then be there, ready, when the teacher arrives at the classroom. Oftentimes we're rushing about and arrive at the classroom after the bell (by two mins, tops, but still...)

I think its about time we do an overhaul of our morning time. But I enjoy my 'kid free' block of time more than a little bit in the evenings (LOL) and I naturally want to have that extend as far as possible. Wrong thinking, I guess. If I I get a head start on my housework by getting up earlier, then there will be more 'free' time during the day while the kids are at school to balance things out, but still.

I read stories all the time about angels that manage to get up at 4:30 and 5:00. Oh. My. Goodness. They must all go to bed right after dinner! LOL. My head would explode by the time the 'school prep' time comes along. I'd be ready for a nap by then!

So what is the general consensus? Do early mornings help or hinder? Do you find your productivity (ie, getting things done) increases with the earlier starts? Were you a night owl in a previous life and have had to wean yourself of the habit? How hard was it? Share your stories...

Please. I'm begging you, LOL.

P.S. Doesn't the bed above look gorgeous? I can't even remember where I found this picture but it's an actual bed you can buy somewhere, and I believe it is wrought-iron. It's like something straight out of Narnia. Miss Moo would go bananas for it :)

Cheers,
Lizzie

Works For Me Wednesday ~ August 15 (Cleaning Kids' Rooms)

Okay, on the cards for this week is a simple way to get kids to clean their rooms, a small bit at a time. Especially if you know there's a lot in there you need to declutter but you're busy doing other things.

Give them each a plastic dish tub. I bought mine for a few dollars each as 'folding baskets' so they could tote them back to their rooms and put laundry away themselves, but we've since switched to a 'most things hang' system so the tubs now take up this job.

I call it the "Five, Ten, Fifteen". I know, wildly imaginative but it will do until I come up with something more exciting, LOL. I send each kid into their room with instructions to find me five things they would be happy to donate (usually toys). I can almost always be found in the kitchen or doing some other chore, but the rule is they have to come and find me and show me the contents of their tubs. I then put all the items away in our perpetual 'donation box' in the spare room.

On the second run, they're to find me ten things to throw away (usually paper clutter). Again, I vet the contents of the tubs.

Third run is minus the tubs, and they're to spend 15 mins straightening up, putting things back in the toybox, and so on. Occasionally, there'll be times when they just can't find 5 things to donate or 10 things to throw away (or recycle). They just skip straight on to the 'Fifteen' and the whole thing just gets done quicker :)

(Fans of Flylady will recognise some of the same principles - she does a '27 fling boogie' that can be quite effective in really messy rooms, but for younger kids, starting off smaller can be a lot more effective. And ingraining the habit is what we're aiming for here, not necessarily a perfectly clean room on the first day, LOL)

This is a good way to introduce 'cleaning your room' to littlies, as it can become quite a game. If they're up for it, send them back in for a second round of "Five, Ten, Fifteen" to get even further ahead. It's also a good way to get them into the habit of regularly purging unwanted toys to give to charity, without that load falling on Mum's shoulders during a Big Room Clean Up which, as we all know, can take all afternoon. Sometimes when kids are told to 'go clean your room', they can look around and feel confused about where to start - this is a good alternative. Once the room is clean and tidy, a quick "Five, Ten, Fifteen" of the room each day or even every second day, will be enough to keep things straight.

Or so goes the theory!

Cheers,
Lizzie

Monday, August 13, 2007

Menu Plan Monday ~ August 13


A very quick post this week. Don't fall over shocked everyone!

Monday ~ Lasagna (wedges, salad - I'm cheating and using a 'heat and eat' lasagna)
Tuesday ~ Parmesan Crumbed Chicken with Chilli Mayo (mini roast potatoes, carrots, broccoli)
Wednesday ~ Cottage Rolls (mashed potatoes, vegies)
Thursday ~ Chunky Shepherd's Pie (vegies - I'm on a quest to find a good Shepherd's Pie recipe)
Friday ~ Leftovers (either extra Cottage Rolls or Shepherd's Pie)
Saturday ~ Chicken Parmigiana (chips, salad)
Sunday ~ Roast Beef (roast potatoes, vegies, gravy)

Hubs is working afternoon shift all this week, so all meals will be just me and the kids. I'm trying to get into the habit of not slacking off in this 'off week', and still preparing good meals, with DH's portion being put aside for the next evening's meal. I manage it about 50% of the time, LOL.

Cheers,
Lizzie

Saturday, August 11, 2007

A Sweet Song

As a teenager, I was a die-hard Celine Dion fan :) I know. She's not for everyone. The general consensus seems to be, you either love her or you hate her, LOL.

Over the years, my taste has run less 'diva' and more 'subtle', but I've kept this song on my iPod because I've always found it uplifting. It wasn't until a couple of months ago that I really began to listen to the lyrics. Play the clip, and close your eyes, LOL.



I'm Your Angel
Celine Dion & R. Kelly

No mountain's too high for you to climb
All you have to do
Is have some climbing faith

No river's too wide for you to make it across
All you have to do
Is believe it when you pray

And then you will see
The morning will come
And every day will be bright as the sun
All of your fears
Cast them on me
I just want you to see

Chorus:

I'll be your cloud up in the sky
I'll be your shoulder when you cry
I hear your voices when you call me
I am your angel
And when all hope is gone, I'm here
No matter how far you are, I'm near
It makes no difference who you are
I am your angel
I'm your angel

I saw your teardrops and I heard you cry
All you need is time
Seek me and you shall find

You have everything and you're still lonely
It don't have to be this way
Let me show you a better day

And then you will see
Morning will come
And all of your days will be bright as the sun
So all of your fears
Just cast them on me
How can I make you see

Repeat Chorus

And when its time to face the storm
I'll be right by your side
Grace will keep us safe and warm
And I know we will survive
And when it seems as if your end is drawing near
Don't you dare give up the fight
Just put your trust beyond the skies

Repeat Chorus

Have a nice day everyone :)

Cheers,
Lizzie

Thursday, August 9, 2007

Ouch....and Stuff


Good morning all! Today's plan of attack is as follows:

* Pray, pray, pray for the elimination of this vice-grip headache that has been a permanent fixture of my day for near on two weeks now. Don't worry, this is normal for me, especially in the last half of The Month :P Hormones suck!

* Crank up the stereo. I'm home ALONE today. ALONE PEOPLE. As in, with NOBODY ELSE HERE. This happens so rarely I'm a bit beside myself. A couple of months ago I was looking to buy one of those desktop speaker sets for my iPod and was grumbling about having to fork over $100+ from my own personal stash - until Hubs, technical wizard that he is, showed me a $17 cord in a store that connects the iPod to our surround-sound system via the socket you normally plug the earphones into. Woohoo! Not only did it cost me pocket change (comparatively speaking) but the sound is awesome and I don't have to bother burning CDs anymore.

* I should probably put on some laundry.

* I should also probably whip round the house and neaten up a bit.

* There's something in a pot in oven. I put it in there 'temporarily' last night when I ran out of bench space and forgot about it when I was doing the dishes later. Ick.

* I need to ring my course co-ordinator. She was meant to get back to me last week in regards to one of my assignments and never did. Sheesh.

* I will study. I WILL. Stop laughing.

* I've got an article brewing in my head that I want to get down in note form by the time the weekend is over. Then slap it all together, add punctuation, and post it.

* Try out my new laminator. Each time I do a new version of the kids' chore charts (or anything else that requires laminating) I have to wait for the next time Errands Day rolls around and have it laminated at the newsagents for $2 a sheet! Figured it was worth the money in the long run (about $25) to have my own.

And that's plenty, thanks!

P.S. Oh, and in the process of including all those links below, I've come to the conclusion that I may have just done a great many people (okay, the five of you who actually read the blog!) a bit of a disservice. My Favourites folder on the computer currently holds 45 blogs. A pittance for some of you out there who use Bloglines, but I can barely keep up with ten or fifteen. All that wasted time! I'm seriously considering deleting the below post and just keeping the 'top ten' list. If you're one of the people who have featured prominently on my blogroll for a while, don't take your removal to heart :) I know I personally get so distracted when I'm online and following a Bloggity Brick Road and lose whole chunks of my already busy day. I'd hate to be the cause of that for you, too! Just now, I sat down for 'five minutes' to check my email and now my cup of tea is cold and I've forgotten what I was doing before! 'Nuff said!

Cheers,
Lizzie

Wednesday, August 8, 2007

For Your Reading Pleasure...


In an effort to cut down on 'page clutter' on Lizzie's Home, I'm re-organizing all my blog links. There'll still be a section on the home page, maybe something along the lines of a 'top ten', but there are just too many good ones out there to limit it to that. For those who want to delve a bit deeper into Bloggityville, here's a list (semi-regularly updated) of blogs and sites I visit on a regular basis. And by 'regular', I mean maybe once every few days, not EVERY day...ouch!

Blogs:

Home Living Helper - Lady Lydia's wonderfully feminine ideas on living.
Keeping The Home - Candy has some great info on Home Management Binders.
A Wise Woman Builds Her Home - Beautiful thoughts on the role of the homemaker.
BooMama - Hilarious. Love the sarcastic wit.
Big Mama - If you like BooMama's wit, you'll find a home at Big Mama's too.
I'm An Organizing Junkie - Menu Plan Monday host and container extraordinaire!
Rocks In My Dryer - Works For Me Wednesday host, and she has a great craft blogroll.
Like Merchant Ships - Love Meredith's wonderful frugal tips - especially the decorating stuff.
Making Home - I discovered this one recently and there are some good discussions going on.
Joy in the Journey - A missionary family living in Indonesia.
A Chelsea Morning - Barb lives in Colorado and recently survived her daughter's wedding!
Life in a Shoe - Seven girls and one boy...how does she do it?
The Lazy Organizer - Smart Habits Saturday host and strangely organized.
Making a House a Home - Southern Pastor's wife.
Notes From The Cookie Jar - We share so much in common ;P
Pearls of Wisdom - Angel Mama's take on biblical womanhood.
The Homemaking Cottage Blog - Shiloah's blog for parent site The Homemaking Cottage.
An Help Meet For Him - A great site dedicated to devotionals about marriage.
Cherish The Home - Beautiful womanhood and homemaking.
From Under The Laundry Pile - Seven kids....SEVEN, people...(LOL)
Looky Daddy! - I laugh every time I read this stay-at-home dad's blog.
Mrs Catherine's Making It Home - The woman whom I credit for the only pizza dough recipe I've ever made that actually worked.
Muffins, Buns & Biscuits - Good stuff on this one.
Renaissance - Another beautiful homemaking site.
The Homespun Heart - Two words...Icecream Sundays. She has my vote.
The LPM Blog -
The Simple Life At Home - Another site I discovered recently that I'm really enjoying.
The Sparrow's Nest - Mrs Wilt's lovely blog.
A Day in the Life of Elle - Another Mum I can relate to :)
Amy's Humble Musings - Mum of five, wife of a rocket scientist.
Michigan Mommy of Many - Okay, she wins. FOURTEEN KIDS.
An Ordinary Mom - Another new site I discovered. Good stuff.
Graced By Christ - Wonderful Christian site...and an awesome painter. Wow.
At Home With Kris - Follow her links to her other sites - she designs some great graphics.
Keeper of the Home - Titus 2 lady.

Check back often for updates! Just look for the link in the right sidebar :)

Cheers,
Lizzie

Sunday, August 5, 2007

Apparently, We All Need To Eat (Grocery Budgets)

Good morning everyone!

Today I'm pottering about the place doing a few little chores. The kids are outside enjoying a brief run of sunshine and - gasp! - I may even hang out some clothes. My sweet little Miss Moo just brought me some flowers (flowering weeds!) from the lawn. Clearly, it is time to mow ;)

Some randomness:

Tomorrow is grocery shopping day. I normally pay for my groceries with our credit card - don't fall over (LOL). We budget almost exclusively through our credit card and pay it off in full each month (never paying interest). If you're disciplined, this can actually be a good way to do it - with less cash on hand, there's less temptation to fritter away change. For the undisciplined, however, this can spell disaster, with no physical connection to the money you're spending. But for us, it works well. When the credit card bill comes in at the end of the month we have a handy reference as to where our money went. We do withdraw cash occasionally to have in our purse/wallet though. It's a bit of a hassle to pay for a sandwich with a credit card! The 'credit system' also works for us because the longer we keep our money in our transaction account, the better. This account is linked with our home loan and the larger the balance on the transaction account, the less interest we pay on the loan.

The one exception to the 'credit card budgeting rule' always seems to be groceries. Hubs, God bless him, has always given me free reign on the grocery spending. He says (and he means it, weirdly enough!) that he doesn't matter what I spend (!!!) at the supermarket so long as the meals are good, and there's snackfood on hand. I'm grateful for two things with this - that his job provides a comfortable income for us to NOT have to watch every grocery penny, and that he leaves it all up to me. Any grocery budget I might mention from here on out was one I gave to myself, LOL.

Speaking of budgets, when I quote a figure, remember that it is in Australian dollars. I absolutely bow down to any housewife who is able to provide wonderful meals at much less than what I spend, but I know from trial and error that there is a sort of 'point of equillibrium' with our family, and going past that in order to save a few more dollars becomes less important to us than variety, interest and convenience. Yes, I said it. Sometimes 'convenience foods' aren't dirty words!

Having said that, we only eat takeaway as a family once a month. But I do buy things like frozen chicken nuggets (and other assorted chicken 'snacks'), frozen oven fries, sometimes cans of soup, individual boxes of sultanas (raisins), individual tubs of chopped up fruit for the kids' lunchboxes, and boxes of muesli bars (granola bars) and fruit bars - amongst other things. Yes, I am working toward eliminating a fair chunk of the processed food and I try out new recipes to do that (last month's homemade chicken nuggets recipe bombed big time!), but in the meantime, I'm just not stressing about it.

So, the grocery budget. I've decided to do it like this:

My Household & Grocery Budget is $300 per week. I know, but Aussie prices. Of that, $50 will be put into a baggie as Household Petty Cash. This is money for things like excursions, pocket money, etc - the little expenses that pop up that you need cash for. If I don't spend it all, I just top it up the next week, keeping a 'float' of $50.

That leaves $250 for groceries. Yes, the idea is to come in well under that. But this amount allows for everything - all toiletries, paper products, household items (lightglobes, toothbrushes etc) AND food. With the price of dairy, fruit and veg and meat these days, the total rises FAST. It also accounts for quick trips to the store for extra milk and bread. Everything.

So along comes grocery day. My cart is filled, I go through the checkout, and I pay with the debit function of my ATM card instead of the credit function. I also take the 'cash out' option and round it out to the full $300.

When I get home, I peel off $50 and stick it in a baggie for Household Petty Cash. Then whatever is left over is Grocery Petty Cash (also put in a baggie). If I need to go to the store during the week, I take cash from this baggie. If this money runs out, too bad - n0 more till next grocery day. If I end up with extra money at the end of a week, I'll transfer it to a tin, or jar, or something. I'll probably earmark this money for a short term expense, like replacing small household items. Oh, and takeaway comes out of this money too. If there's not enough in the jar at the end of the month, no takeaway :) Having a fast-food meal at KFC or McDonald's usually tops $25 for our family of 5 (with three kids). Pizza Hut is about $12-$15 for two pizzas.

I'll report back in a few weeks to describe how I went :)

Cheers,
Lizzie

Saturday, August 4, 2007

Smart Habits Saturday ~ August 4

My Smart Habits for this week are fairly simple:

1. Make this coming week's menu, incorporating more vegies in. Then execute it - consistently!
2. Shop for groceries on Monday with a budget in mind (I need to concentrate on this!)
3. Put in an hour's worth of decluttering in both the 4th bedroom and the main bedroom.
4. Finish that last assignment!
5. Handwrite two letters - one a thankyou note to family we stayed with on our recent trip away and the second to my sister, using my new letter writing set.

Next week I'll be back with an update on the above Habits, and a new list. I'm limiting myself to just five a week, LOL. Oh, the pressure! Some weeks will have 'carry-overs' from previous weeks.

Hope everyone is doing well with their own Habits :)

For more information about Smart Habits Saturday, head on over to The Lazy Organizer.

Cheers,
Lizzie

Where Does This Lie on the Catastrophe Scale?

Yesterday, Hubs and I had what you could term a 'disagreement'.

But first, a bit of a side note. I made a decision on Day One of this blog that I would never directly post about any personal issue I had with my husband. But bare with me...

Oh, I was hopping mad! For the two years we've lived here, whenever we've outgrown clothing, or household items, or books, I've been packing them away ready for the Big Charity Drop-Off that never eventuated. This past week, Hubs had time off and we were going to finally get around to donating the bags while the kids were in school. There were at least a dozen carefully sorted and packed away garbage-can sized bags full of stuff.

I won't tell you the exact nature of the argument because it won't serve any purpose. As with any argument, there were two sides and we each thought we were right. Let's just say at one point I had to physically remove myself from the room.

Sometimes, the best thing we can possibly do for our spouses, is to keep our mouths shut.

It took all of my energy to leave the room. I wanted to stay and fight. My instincts were telling me to stay and argue my point. I did, for a little while. And I could see the curtain drop over his face - you know the one that says "I'm here physically, but I'm just not listening to you anymore!"? That look infuriates me! So though it took every fibre of my being, I stopped.

I can't say that I was Little Miss Sunshine for the rest of the day, but I know stepping back when I did was the best thing I could have done.

Ironically, I met Hubs 11 years ago today. I'm not sure I fell in love with him that first day, but there was definitely a physical attraction! Through the years we've been through an awful lot, but we're strong. I love him to bits, even when when one or both of us are wrong!

In my daughter's classroom, the teacher instigated what they refer to as The Catastrophe Scale. They presented it to the children as a way for them to self-regulate their emotional responses to things. I nearly laughed out loud when I heard about it. Basically the idea is to take the thing you're worried about, and see where is lies on The Catastrophe Scale. The exact words they used with the children were "If you left your hat at home and had to play in the shade, where would that be on The Catastrophe Scale? Now, what about if your HOUSE BURNED DOWN (emphasis mine!) and all your clothes and toys were burned up? Where would that lie on the Scale?" Yes. You can see what I mean.

But apparently the kids took to that concept really well, with no major psychological scarring or nightmares about toys exploding into fireballs. Well done Mrs P!

When you think about it, as dramatic as The Catastrophe Scale sounds to a 5 year old, the idea of it is probably really useful. Where did yesterday's 'discussion' lie on the Scale?

Certainly nowhere near the house burning down!

Hubs is at work today, but tonight I'm fixing a nice meal, maybe even with a cooked dessert (we don't 'do dessert' very often) and I might even send the kids to bed early (*wink*)

Because the biggest catastrophe of all would be not having him around to 'discuss' with :)

Cheers,
Lizzie

Lizzie's Basic Weekly Plan


There's a rumor going around Bloggityville that I am super-organised. Untrue...so very untrue, LOL. But having a plan for each day of the week does help to minimise the 'headless chook' feeling, and so, because I want you all to keep your heads, I offer up my Basic Weekly Plan for inspiration. Pick what you like, and ignore the rest. Remember, what works for me, may not work for you.

Those familiar with Flylady (God rest her moderately disturbing sense of order...) will already be up to speed on one of the 'cleaning schedule camps' - the Zone Method. You spend a whole week in any given zone (sometimes made up of a couple of rooms or areas), and last time I checked, she works on having five zones to the average house (more or less). That never really worked for me. I like to have a set plan for Monday, a set plan for Tuesday, and so on. Autopilot Housekeeping for Dummies, if you like!

Lizzie's Basic Weekly Plan

~ Monday ~

Bedroom 2
Bedroom 3

~ Tuesday ~

Laundry Room
Bathroom
Ensuite

~ Wednesday ~

Kitchen
Family Room
Desk Day
Menu Planning

~ Thursday ~

Main Bedroom & Robe
Loungeroom
Grocery Shopping


~ Friday ~

Entrance & Hall
Bedroom 4
Errands Day
(library, fruit & veg shop, butcher, post office, etc)

~ Saturday ~

Weekly Yard Blessing (the usual yardwork)
Misc Laundry (school uniforms, work uniforms, towels, sheets, other bedding)
Home Project (1 hour)

~ Sunday ~

Baking Day (I try to aim for a cake or muffins and some cookies, for the kids lunches for the week ahead)
Set Aside Returnables (donations, library books, borrowed items)
Pamper Day (random pottering about the house, reading the paper etc)

As you can see, most of the nitty-gritty housework stuff is deliberately scheduled for weekdays, when the kids are in school. On the weekends, all bets are usually off!

Saturday is a big washing day but if we start it early it isn't too bad, and its during the rebooting of all those loads that we pick a project we need to work on around the house (cleaning out tupperware cupboard, reorganising pantry, putting photos into albums and so on) and Hubs starts on the yard, with me (and the kids) helping as time permits.

Sundays are very loose, just the way we like them :) We sleep later, read the paper, and Mama relaxes until the oven goes on for baking in the afternoon.

I have a section in my Home Management Binder (update coming soon) for Focus Cleaning, and it is from those lists that I work on the applicable room depending on the day. I have a two-hour window allocated toward housework a day which I've worked out is plenty if I don't dawdle or get distracted :P Because it will only be a week before that particular room pops up again in my rotation, it never gets filthy enough to require a mammoth cleaning session.

Cheers,
Lizzie

Friday, August 3, 2007

Lizzie's "Once-in-a-Blue-Moon" Book & DVD List

In an effort to streamline the blog a bit, I'm including these as a post all on their own. I miss reading for pleasure - for me its a bit impossible to pick up a good book these days however its definitely on the cards post-study as a regular gig.

Here's what I'm hoping to get through before, oh, say, the year 2011...

( * indicates a book that I have read before, or a DVD that I have already seen, but want to reacquaint with)

Fiction

Pride and Prejudice (Jane Austen) *
The Power of One (Bryce Courtenay) *
My Sister's Keeper (Jodi Picoult)
Cloudstreet (Tim Winton)
Gone With The Wind (Margaret Mitchell) *
Wuthering Heights (Emily Bronte)
Jane Eyre (Charlotte Bronte) *
A Fortunate Life (A.B. Facey) *
Little Women
(Louisa May Alcott) *
A Child Called 'It'
(Dave Pelzer)
Dirt Music (Tim Winton)
The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Nighttime (Mark Haddon)
The whole Anne of Green Gables series (Lucy Maud Montgomery) *
The whole Narnia series (C.S. Lewis) *

Non-Fiction

The Excellent Wife (Martha Peace)
Created To Be His Helpmeet
(Debi Pearl)

Reference Books

Something other than course books...please?

DVDs

Anne of Green Gables *
Anne of Green Gables - The Sequel *
Anne of Green Gables - The Continuing Story
Yours, Mine & Ours
A Walk To Remember *
The Guardian
The Notebook *
Hope Floats *
The Prince and Me
*
The Family Stone
The Wedding Date
The Holiday
Becoming Jane
Because I Said So
The Queen
Dances With Wolves *
Miss Potter
A Beautiful Mind *
Gladiator *
A Good Year
Braveheart *
While You Were Sleeping
*

Cheers,
Lizzie

Thursday, August 2, 2007

Lizzie's Thursday Thoughts ~ August 2


~~ Thursday Thoughts ~~

Every morning you are handed 24 golden hours. They are one of the few things in this world that you get free of charge. If you had all the money in the world, you couldn't buy an extra hour. What will you do with this priceless treasure? Remember, you must use it, as it is only given once. Once wasted you cannot get it back.

~ Author Unknown ~


I've often thought of this quote as I've struggled with my perpetual time management issues through the years. How true is this statement? I remember as a child, anxiously awaiting the arrival of Christmas Day, thinking that time moved so s-l-o-w-l-y. How could I bear it? And now, as an adult, I marvel at how quickly time flies by. I was just thinking yesterday that I have no definining memories of Miss Moo from about age 2 through to age 4. For the life of me I can't pinpoint specific examples of her 'being three'! I'm sure toilet training was predominant, but I think I've blocked those years out!

My time could be much better spent in more productive pursuits, that's for sure. This year, I made a big step in that direction by cutting my TV watching down to about one third of what it was before. The further into the 'less TV' experiment I got, the more I realised that firstly, I would not drop down dead if I didn't happen to catch Desperate Housewives (LOL) and secondly, that the content of the shows I used to enjoy just didn't hold the same appeal. Desperate Housewives is just one example of many - I was a fan from the moment it first aired here last year (months after premiering in the States). It's only after I stopped watching a couple of months ago that I realised the entire show is based around qualities I'd be ashamed to emulate - adultery, murder, boyfriend-stealing, and a whole raft of others. Of course I already knew that it contained these things but they only started to bother me when I was able to distance myself from the habit of watching every week. I only watched because that's what I did on Monday nights.

I still have 'my' shows - and yes, I was caught up in the whole 'Heroes' thing, LOL - but by cutting two-thirds of my usual list, I gained some valuable hours. I can't say I always used them to the best of their advantage (LOL) but they were there.

I want to return to a simpler way of reading and watching films. I couldn't get enough of Anne of Green Gables (both books and films) or any number of the Jane Austen film or TV adaptations when I was young. Over the years, I still retained my love for them but I had to throw them in the mix with the more morally ambiguous fare. Now, as my daughter grows, I would be positively thrilled if she found a love for Anne, Eleanor, Marianne, Lizzie and Emma. Those should be her role models, not the Britneys, Nicoles or Parises.

But don't get me started on those...

Cheers,
Lizzie

Wednesday, August 1, 2007

Works For Me Wednesday ~ August 1

*** Please scroll down for an explanation as to why this post appears to have nothing whatsoever to do with parenting advice! ***

Good morning everyone!

Have you noticed that nobody writes actual paper-and-envelope letters anymore?

This was further reinforced to me this week when I tried (in vain) to find a letter writting set in stores. You know the ones - they probably featured prominently in your childhood as birthday presents from Grandma, LOL. I couldn't find them anywhere! I finally came across a set by Hallmark in the local Kmart store, only to choke at the price. They wanted $20 for 20 sheets of A5 paper, 15 envelopes, and two notecards! No thank-you-very-much!

I finally decided to make my own letter writing set. I started with this clear plastic file box:


I think I spent about $4 on it (no doubt I could have bought it cheaper elsewhere, but I wasn't in the mood to look!). Next, I bought a 50-sheet pack of Tudor marbled paper (about $6) and envelopes that approximated a match, also from Tudor (around $5). This is good quality paper - not flimsy.


The simple marbled design on the paper gives it a classic touch and the whole kit cost about $15, for more than twice the amount of the Hallmark set. The clear box is re-usable and was the perfect size to hold one 50-sheet pack of paper and the 20 envelopes:


It would be quite easy to cut the paper down to A5 size (most of the letter writing paper I saw was like that). You could 'decorate' the envelopes and paper quite classily - maybe a single heart or star sticker in the upper left corner or a rubber stamp design.

I'm going to hand-write one letter or thankyou note to a member of my family or to friends each week on Desk Day. Just because we shouldn't let go of that sort of thing :)

*** Edited to add: Of course it WOULD have to be the one week, in oh, about two months that I decide to do a WFMW post and then realise it is a THEMED WEEK on parenting advice. D'oh! Okay, parenting advice....parenting advice....just so I can link to this post and not waste it....LOL.....

Ah, I've got it...

When a three year old swallows a Magnetix ball, don't panic (unless said child is choking or can't breathe....then panic. You have my permission. But ring the ambulance first. Because that's just good parenting advice, LOL). Instead, remember calmly that you did the same thing yourself when you were three and it made for all sorts of interesting wedding anecdotes many, many years later as your brothers recounted the day it finally 'came out at the equator' after the third day. And what point is there to parenting at all unless you can store up a whole bunch of wonderful stories just like that one to torture your poor child on their first date, prom, wedding day, during the labour of their first born...? ***


Cheers,
Lizzie
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